Life just got complicated

Hi guys and gals back from another weekend away, this time Hen Weekend on the ferries, excellent time had by all I just wish I could try and sleep when I go on these do's...lol

Well things started to get interesting when as we where getting our boarding passes the girl behind the counter informed us there were 150 squadies on board, my comment was later to bite me on the arse quite literally when I replied yeah but they will all be 19......ok they weren't only about 50% of them.

So after being pestered by the youngsters for most of the night, the older ones sat back and waited for them to fall over before making their move.

Now you will see the title of this post and I haven't even started to tell you what all that is about but it's fair to say, yes I did complicate that even more by pulling a rather nice Irish guy. Anyway good night had by all and we waved them off in the morning.

Right now onto the complicated bit, in the last few weeks I have had no problems attracting the male variety of the spicies, this has come as a shock to me because in all honesty I have never had men falling at my feet, but for some bizare reason after I started seeing Mr M they started to appear out of the woodwork.

Well I will call this one Mr A, I met Mr A a few weeks ago on a night out he's a nice guy all the things I should want, but for some reason he doesn't float my boat, typical eh!? He kinda of assumes he is with me but I have made no bones about Mr M still being in the picture which he says he is ok about but I am not sure he is.

Mr M is also starting to get suspicious that maybe there is someone else on the scene, though in all honesty due to the fact he has a wife I don't really feel obliged to tell him.

Ok now onto the complicated bit Mr A was away this weekend so decided to go to the usual pub, very last minute as is usually the case with me and we walked in and Mr A's best mate was there and pissed.

He picked me up threw me in the air and it went down hill from there onwards, telling me how much he fancied me and had done for a while, and there's me ermmm why have I just found this out, Mr A's best mate is far more my type, but I took it in my stride and thought it was the drink talking.

So Saturday morning arrives and Mr A's best mate, let's call him Mr G for now to save anymore confusion is on the phone asking me how I feel about Friday night, nothing happened just a few drunken snogs that's all and there's me thinking ok how do I answer this, so I said well Mr A's not going to be happy is he and I the reply I get is but how do you feel, oh well a drunken snog that doesn't need to go any further, I then get the downhearted reply of, I was afraid you where going to say that, wheyyyy now what do I do.

The main problem is I do fancy this guy like mad and obviously the feeling is mutual, so now I have to make the call to Mr A and tell him, then Mr G will also do the same.

I really don't want to mess about with mates but as he says it just happened, neither of us where looking for it, this is actually quite scary because he is quite a confirmed no one gets near me and now he's prepared to lose his mate.

I will be gutted if it causes major problems though because that is not what I set out to do we just clicked and have far more in common than I have with Mr A.

So I need to make the call tonight and I haven't got a clue what to say to him, but I don't fancy him and if it was right I would know.

I am not looking to tie myself down just have fun still but have fun with someone I fancy the pants off is a much better surely.

I suddenly feel very selfish but I have to be, I have to keep thinking of number one and Mr G makes me tick.

Mr M is kinda gonna have to just accept it, he is in no position to question it at all, but I do still value his friendship because that's where we started.

Any advice is greatly received.........